We all have ideas, how to make women safe. We all point to numerous problems as well. From the clothes to reservation, to education of men in gender sensitivity. But what we fail to recognize is that the problem simply is of understanding the mind of women. Either they are thought to be inferior or as different as aliens from another planet. The female mind is simply different, and the only way forward is the understanding of the female mind. The way a woman may look at an issue may be completely different from a man, and hence finding a solution becomes impossible. Let us take a step towards this direction.