I think jammu and kashmir both are safe when it comes to tourists point of view. Since my childhood I dreamt of visiting Jammu and Kashmir at least once in my lifetime. But like everyone I am afraid of visiting this place due to the terrorist activity that usually happens at this state. But after reading these posts I realized no tourist place is ever safe. So, I decided whatever happens desires shouldn't fade under fear. I am sure Indian government is most particular on tourist security as it generates higher revenues for the government.